Sometimes just letting a woman know that she is everything to you is enough to fix a bad relationship. Men want to take care of women and know that they are needed. Women want to be taken care of and want to know that the man wants them to be there. They need to feel attractive and wanted. They need to hear that they are loved and are important. Sometimes women just need to be told that they are the only one that will ever be important. Go to your ex and tell her that you love her. Tell her how important she is to you and how she makes you feel. It is not easy for a man to be vulnerable but sometimes it is necessary. We can not go through life doing only what feels comfortable to us. We sometimes have to go out of our comfort zone for the ones we love. If she sees that you are trying and that you really do care it will make a difference to her. She will be flattered and will feel loved. There is nothing better than hearing the person you love say that they love you and no one could ever take your place.