Breaking up is not always the right way to fix a bad  relationship. There are times when we all make mistakes. If  you have cheated on the woman that you love and broken  her heart there are things that you can do to try to fix a bad  relationship. Giving her time to try to understand and  grasp what has happen is the most important thing you can  do. No matter what you say she will think that you cheated  because of something to do with her.

She will feel very inadequate and will probably question  you about everything. Do not get frustrated. Try to be  understand and answer her questions as openly and  honestly as you can. Buying her gifts will tell her that you  think she can be bought. Taking the time to make her feel  safe is essential. She needs to know that you know that you  made a mistake and that you truly regret it. She will not be able to trust you for quite some time. You are the one that made the mistake and have to be ready to deal with the consequences. She may need to take a break for a while. Give her the space she needs.